Wednesday, March 01, 2006

Marriage on the rocks

hi man, how's everything? did you hear some news? recently, there was an article about, "The divorce rates are rising each year." Sound's terrible, isn't it.

A poll was being taken and most of them agreed the problem was because of ommunication.

You see, the married couples did not communicate enough as he or she have to spent long hours at work. The world has since changed rapidly over the last few years. We are facing more challenages and they have to work even more for the same things they expect. As time passes they have differences over financial matters, kids.

As they spent more time in office rather at home, during the process, he or she have found someone outside to relate their problems and spent time together.

Sound sad, isn't it. Well to tell the truth, there is a saying, "For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."

The heart is the control center for life. A person’s life is a reflection of his heart. So, his or her heart has changed naturally and things did not just happened without a reason.

It has been rising over the years, as the economy has yet to recover the good old days. We have to change our expectations. Work is important, but family, friends and relatives are equally more important. It really draw deep in your heart when there is a crisis.

Nice jogging with you. You are good over the years and have not changed much and still have a loving wife at home waiting for you? Ok, good night, my friend.

2 comments:

Mockingbird said...

The best way to avoid disappoinment with one's partner is to lower one's expectation ;p

sOnG said...

not only but to give and take as well.