Thursday, November 29, 2018

Keep your good heart. 
Become a person who lets himself be guided primarily by warmth and humanity. 
Learn to think and judge for yourself, responsibly. 

Don't accept everything without criticism and as absolutely true... 

The biggest mistake of my life was that I believed everything faithfully which came from the top, and I didn't dare to have the least bit of doubt about the truth of that which was presented to me. 

... In all your undertakings, 

don't just let your mind speak, but listen above all to the voice in your heart.

Tuesday, November 13, 2018

a moment of anger

Almost three years from that fateful night, a bespectacled man,clad in a purple prison jumpsuit with his head shaved, visibly emotional, he said: 

“I have completely failed her, and never will I forgive myself for all that had happened. 
It was a toxic relationship, but this will not take away my love for her. 
I miss her dearly, and I will always love her with all my heart each and every day.”
Neo apologised to her's family, 
“I am truly very, very sorry for causing you such tremendous grief, sorrow and suffering… I can only hope that someday, you may find it in your heart to forgive me,”


Friday, November 09, 2018


Nails In The Fence

There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. 
His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. 


The first day the boy had driven plenty of nails into the fence that he forgot to count. 

Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. 

He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. 

Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. 


He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper. 

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. 

The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. 


He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there." 

The little boy then understood how powerful his words were. He looked up at his father and said "I hope you can forgive me father for the holes I put in you." 

"Of course I can," said the father.