when people asked us to marry, we threw back a question:
in future, no matter what has happened, she will get half of your property
yes, we have seen cases after cases and knew its pitfalls. there are things that money counts in the end. and they are things which can come to past in many ways which are out of control.
however, it is expected because they have planned it before you get married.
they are after your monies and not your love.
sadly speaking, it is human nature and we blame no one